I did write this right on her second birthday... Just taken me awhile to get it posted! (Apparently I've run out of storage space for photos, so that's been confounding me... Unfortunately, no photos but here's the long update on my big girl!)
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My dear, dear, sweet baby girl,
You are TWO years old! Every month, I think, “This is my
favorite age yet!” This past year, you have grown in so many ways and astounded
your father and me.
You went from saying and signing a few words, to signing up
a storm, to talking nonstop. The constant stream of words babbling from your
mouth is darling, exhilarating, and exhausting. You signed for a long time; you
had about a hundred different signs and sounds and combinations, and it let you
communicate with us while you weren’t quite ready to start speaking. “Food,”
“water,” “frog,” “octopus.” You know, the important things. Then, around 18 or
19 months, you suddenly embraced verbal communication. You rapidly picked up
more words than I can count, and you started putting together sentences almost
immediately. “Mommy drive Daddy’s silver SUV.” “Mommy change Lana’s dirty
diaper.” “Julia lick doggie.” “Lana poop everywhere!” When you were learning,
you would throw together a string of words and let me sort it out: “Mommy Julia
pick up school black SUV every day lunch.” Now, you pick up a different idiom
every few days, and each new one is more adorable than the last. “Now what?”
“Um… maybe?” “I LOVE IT!” Or your latest: “Move!” I’ve suspected you’ve always
understood us more than you ever let on, but now it’s clear you get almost
everything that someone says to you.
You started school this year. The first two weeks were
pretty rough. You cried, I cried, and then you caught on that I always picked
you up for lunch and you started to like it. Now, some mornings you actually
get upset with us if we’re not getting you ready for school quickly enough.
You’d run out without clothes or breakfast if we let you. (Yes, without
clothes… we’re working on that.) It’s really neat to watch you learn new things
from other people. Two days a week for a few hours is perfect. You sing songs,
play on the playground with your friends, and do art projects. And you
absolutely make my day every time you see me come pick you up. You drop
whatever you’re doing and run towards me with your arms wide open, with a pure
joy, “Mommy!!!” Don’t ever grow out of that, ok?
Another big first for you this year was your first baby
sister! Lana was born a day after your half-birthday. At first you thought she
was pretty neat, then you were seriously over her, then you ignored her, and
now you’ve settled into a rhythm of mostly gentle tolerance. Lana, on the other
hand, absolutely adores you. Just seeing your face makes her break out in a
huge grin, and it only takes one “peekaboo!” from you to make her belly laugh.
She watches you, which is tough because you’re constantly running from one
thing to the next, and you are her favorite person in our family right now. I
can see the beginnings of clashes between you two – mostly over toys and my attention
right now – but I can also see the very tender beginnings of a loving sisterly
bond.
Other big firsts for you this year:
·
Your first trip to the beach. You loved it, you
fearless little thing you - right through the sand into the waves. Your favorite
part was asking Daddy to dig you a hole in the sand, then sitting in it while
we poured buckets of water around you. “More?” you’d sign.
·
You learned to count. You can actually count up
to three, but can recite your numbers up to ten.
·
You learned the alphabet. You can sing it
(although sometimes you get caught in a loop at the end: “Now I sang my ABCs….
D, E, F, G, H, I, J, K….”), and you know some of your letters. I don’t know how
many, since you’ll never identify them on command, but you frequently come up
to me out of the blue, hand me a letter from your alphabet puzzle, and tell me
which one it is.
·
You’re slowly learning colors other than green.
You like to sort things by color and match colors together, but you’re again
very coy on which colors you actually know.
·
You’ve gotten almost all your teeth! We’re
waiting for you to finish your last four molars (as of now you have two so
far), and we’re done with teeth for a few years!
·
You (very reluctantly) kicked the bottle habit,
and now you’re eating solid food and drinking drinks like a real little person.
We ditched the high chair and you’re in a booster seat at the table. It’s
wonderful. You smear food everywhere and you’ve probably ruined my nice, wood
table, but it’s lovely sharing meal times with you. And it’s lovely that you
sometimes will bring me a cup and ask for a snack. Or bring me a cup and ask me
for juice. It’s so much nicer than you standing in the kitchen, wailing, while
I guess what you might want.
You started the “terrible twos” at about
a year and a half. You started having meltdowns over things like wearing socks
(we have a lot of meltdowns about socks, actually), or getting in the car, or
sitting down to eat, or generally doing things that weren’t really on your
immediate agenda. And you went through quite an adjustment when Lana was born,
too. But, you’ve evened out a bit and I’ve done my best to respond
appropriately when your feelings just get too overwhelming. And really, it’s
just that you’re SO passionate about everything right now. While wearing the
wrong colored socks (PINK socks are for NAPTIME!) feels like the end of the
world, it also feels like you’ve seen the sun for the first time in your life
every morning when I get you out of your crib. You can be unimaginably sweet. You
love to “snuggle,” where you throw your arms around my neck, burrow your face
into my neck, and hold on for dear life. You give kisses and say, “sweet
dreams!” to your dad every night before bed. You giggle absolutely
uncontrollably when your dad or I chase you around the house and “get you!” You
love to sing and go on “adventures.” (Although it better be good if I promise
you an adventure – you should have heard how upset you were when I brought you
to an ordinary playground on “an adventure.”) You sit in the back seat of my
car and sing along hilariously to my music. You like Dixie Chicks and Red Hot
Chili Peppers. You love hugs, kisses, and tickles. It takes almost nothing to
get you to break out into a grin, any time.
You
are a delight. You are pure maple sugar candy right now and I wish I could keep
you at this age forever. Your light shines so brightly, and I love being your
mom. Hugs and kisses to you on your second birthday, with wishes and prayers
for many many more.
Anna recognizes the alphabet too! I attribute it to her watching Leap Frog Alphabet video though, not my efforts :/
ReplyDeleteThere's something strange going on with blogger. I've read many say their photo cache is full. The solution is to host on something like Photobucket. It's a pain, but it works.
Myself and 3 other friends ran out of photo storage this week also. They must have just changed something, it's bizarre!
ReplyDeleteOh, I am in tears reading this. What a wonderful little person you've created! She is truly something spectacular. I just adore her. And I miss you guys! Playdate sometime soon?
ReplyDeleteP.S. You might have to buy more storage from Google. I think I pay $5 a year or something for more picture storage. Yes, it's only $5 and yet it still pisses me off.
I miss your blog. Please come back. How about just a photo dump so I can see your beautiful girls. Miss you all!
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